When I whine ,
They say , ' The masterjee is whining , he likes to whine !',Oh , that grand pa !

Like I said time and again ,.

Happiness is a journey , 

Happiness is not a destination.

and by the way ,

I just don't cry over spilt milk !

but

I'll cried because I am sad

and 

when I am sad ..

Happiness ,as I knew it , it is a place

The place where nobody dare to go !,

because , there , nothing is happier .

Cakap tak sama , bikin tak serupa , ma !

Happiness is in your heart ,ma !



I did my best but I guess my best wasn't good enough
'Cause here we are back where we were before
Seems nothing ever changes, 
Just once, can't we figure out what we keep doing wrong
Why we never last for very long
What are we doing wrong
Just once, can't we find a way to finally make it right

I gave my all but I think my all may have been too much
'Cause Lord knows we're not getting anywhere
And it seems at times with all we've got we haven't got a prayer
Can't we figure out what we keep doing wrong
Why the good times never last for long
Where're we going wrong
Can't we find a way to finally make it right
I know we could break through it, if we could just get to it
Just once, I want to understand
Take the best and make it better
I know we can get through it

Kalau dah berbelanja melebihi keupayaan , nak happy macam mana, gaji RM 2,000.00 dah pakai Honda City baru , instalment RM 900.00 sebulan , kesudahannya , makan rasuah dan pecah amanah lah , duit tak pernah cukup , jika ada isteri , nak beli bedak makeup pun tak cukup , bergaduh lah siang malam laki dan bini, akhirnya bini keluar ikut pintu belakang , lebih malang bila bini bercerita masalah dalam facebook , ada lah mamat bunga yag masuk jarum, busuk lah puki bini anda ! ,kecuali lah Honda City tu boleh di sewa , .. dan anda boleh menyewa bini anda , jika kedua dua itu boleh generate income , kawin lah 3 lagi , semuanya sewakan , kaya lah anda , happy kah anda ?. Mampu konon, pi raah .

Punya nak berlagak dan mandrum , nak bagi orang impressed , sanggup izinkan bini menjaja air jambu batu tepi jalan , apa punya jantan , mamat tu ,

issh ... issshhh., Tak ada , buat lah cara tak ada .

Pak Arab dulu , sebelum kedatangan Nabi S.A.W , mereka berbini ramai sebab meraikan tetamu , bila tetamu bertandang , mereka ' sedekah ' bini mereka kepada tetamu .., tau ?

 my message is 

Live within your means !!

Happiness has remained an elusive concept over the centuries. Philosophers, religious scholars, sociologists and academicians have tried to define happiness, with some regarding it as a material thing for which material possessions have been identified as a means to achieve happiness. Others are of the view that happiness has nothing to do with material pursuits and that it is a moral or a spiritual phenomenon which one can acquire by doing the right things. Despite these definitions and explorations, the idea is as Greek as it was before. However, if you want to be happy but are not sure where to start, I suggest you begin by being kinder. Acts of giving will boost your well being as well as offer something good to the recipient and the world at large. These acts can take many forms and so you can do something that suits you personally. For instance, you can do voluntary work for a philanthropist organisation; you can do good deeds in your neighbourhood, for friends, family, work colleagues and even strangers. Happiness lies in giving to others. When you stop thinking about yourself, it is then that the journey to happiness starts. Our focal point is always I or me. These two words are the cause of sadness that we suffer. Whenever we run after something to achieve, it runs away faster from us. But when we decide to turn our back on our sought-after pursuits, those things would come for us. This is the law of Nature, which is immutable and never changes. If real happiness could be achieved by having lots of money and concentrating power, then kings would never have left their thrones in search of happiness. Buddha, Ashoka, Ibraham bin Adham are a few examples from the history. They abandoned their exalted positions to find solace and happiness. They found happiness once they started serving the poor and the needy of God’s creations. Childhood bliss The happiest time of our life lies in our childhood. As we grow older, our desires grow as well. Sadness follows unfulfilled desires. In order to acquire eternal happiness, we need to get rid of our desires. That is why it is said that the best state to go back to God is the state in which you were born. That is the state of innocence with one’s soul untainted by the worldly desires. You do not have to volunteer work to be a kinder person but carry out good deeds in your home or at work. You can do something for people you do not know. Try to give people the benefit of the doubt. Let them make creative mistakes and learn for the sake of personal growth. Offer genuine compliments. Give small gifts. Plan something special for a loved one. Share your possessions without getting uptight about them. Avoid gossiping in emails and on the telephone. Instead, make a conscious effort to only say good things about others. You always have something to offer. Positive attitude Think of ways you can share that information. Think of ways in which you might be a positive influence on someone’s life. When you see an opportunity to help, take it. Not every act of kindness needs to be acknowledged. You are better off assuming the opposite. You are performing good deeds because you want to, not for the thanks but for the sake of happiness that springs from inside. It’s a great way to increase your humility. Recognise that each act, no matter how small, will make a difference. It does not have to be the grand gesture. The way to transform happiness from individual level to the collective phenomenon is to make efforts aimed at making your country and society welfare-oriented. One can start this endeavour from the grassroots level by establishing welfare committees and keep on expanding its ambit. It calls for establishment of systems and arrangements for doing well to people in an institutionalized manner. That is why the People of the Sub-continent rendered numerous sacrifices for their countries inspired by their leaders. Let us resolve to make our countries modern and welfare-oriented as per the dreams of our founding fathers.

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